I have twin two-year-old boys and they're just starting to talk. I love hearing their voices express their opinions, likes and dislikes, wants and needs. I love hearing them get excited about seeing a lizard on the window (we live in Texas), an ant on the ground or the truck on the road. I love their great big smiles and even their crocodile tears. I love how they hug their stuffed bunnies and how much they love their Grandpa. I love watching them play and I love to play with them. I'm just in love with them right now, even on days like today when they skipped their nap and performed Armageddon, The Musical, at dinner.
I must confess here that I think I was a little secretly disappointed when I learned I was having boys. I grew up being fed the 'girls rock' diet and just knew I would be the best girl mom ever. I would support and encourage her, empower and respect her; all the things she would need to succeed in this world. Then, when these guys were born, it all changed. I would now do every one of these things for my boys but honestly - have you ever tried googling, 'empower boys'? All you get is page after page of links for empowering underprivileged boys. What about all boys? Do they need to start with a deficit before we recognize their worth? Isn't it time we give them a place, right next to girls? I digress.
What do you love about boys? Do tell!
I must confess here that I think I was a little secretly disappointed when I learned I was having boys. I grew up being fed the 'girls rock' diet and just knew I would be the best girl mom ever. I would support and encourage her, empower and respect her; all the things she would need to succeed in this world. Then, when these guys were born, it all changed. I would now do every one of these things for my boys but honestly - have you ever tried googling, 'empower boys'? All you get is page after page of links for empowering underprivileged boys. What about all boys? Do they need to start with a deficit before we recognize their worth? Isn't it time we give them a place, right next to girls? I digress.
What do you love about boys? Do tell!
I love how he gives all of his toys personalities--vehicles, animals, robots, even Bally the ball and his baby rock.
ReplyDeleteI love his emotional expressiveness and intensity.
I love how easily he laughs and that he loves making me laugh. He will go to such great lengths.
I love how he takes a topic and focuses on it so completely until he knows everything he wants to know.
I love how he gets a shy flirty smile when he meets someone new that he likes but feels afraid to talk to.
I love that he needs upside down time every day.
I love that he enjoys teaching me about the things he enjoys, in extensive detail.
More on why I love my boy: http://mylittlehouseinthecity.blogspot.com/2011/07/watching-your-children-grow-up-is.html
ReplyDeleteThanks Jessica!
ReplyDelete